A good example

There are lots of really fantastic things about my wife, but one of my favorites is that she is really open about who she is. She's straight up with you and doesn't go out of her way to be nasty, but doesn't pretend to like what you're saying or agree with you if she doesn't like what you're saying or agree with you. I learned at some point that smiling and agreeing was an easy way out of situations i didn't care to invest myself in, and I've really learned a lot from her about being open and honest about yourself. I really appreciate her example in that way.